Communication plays a Key role in Building Friendship.
Initially we are all STRANGERS before we meet,
after we meet we tend to be FRIENDS.
After being Friends and understanding the Comfort Levels,
we convert ourselves to BEST-FRIENDS.
Best-Friends are likely to become FAMILY Members.
Relationships are possible only when they are established in real Life situations. They are not possible just by having a deep desire or by simply fantasizing mentally. Along with praying mentally, it is also Necessary to be wise enough to initiate Communications in-order to establish proper healthy relationships.
As seen in the figure the core remains FAMILY or a relationship which is Tightly bond. Best friends usually or likely convert and turn to be family members. Likewise if we analyze, it’s a process which takes different levels to come to the core i.e. FAMILY, in other words a stranger cannot become a family member suddenly.
In all the above, understanding plays a Key Role. It’s a Step by Step Procedural Approach to Relationships.
Some times we understand the importance of relationships only when we Lose them. It is only because, we realize the necessity and importance when we are deprived of them. As said better Late than Never, we got to have Patience and need to make efforts to build them. Good things are hard to build but are easy to break, thus its not wise to break the close relations without a proper analysis nor its wise to create a strong relationship without proper understandings. We got to put Efforts and leave the rest for destiny to decide. With the Best of Luck.
Fear of Speaking: (Communication Skills)
Many times we see people who are afraid to speak, to communicate and express. Speaking is also an Art which comes by practice. Practice Makes Perfect. The Best Example would be, if you have noticed the Marketing guys who visit "Door to Door" to sell their products. Or the Tele-Marketing guys who can just call anyone and just start speaking. It is practice of speaking, when you acquire experience by practice. More over any new thing would be difficult initially. All BIG things start with SMALL first steps. To Acquire High Confidence Level, without any Fear, to have a Routine Conversation, Easy & Casual. Take care you never get Tensed or Excited or Confused, when you call someone for the first time.
For Example: The first thing any one would say when they call some one is: "hi, how are you" ,
"i hope you are having a nice time" ,
"my name is so and so" ,
"do you remember me, it has been a long time since i last spoke to you",
"i just called to find out if you were doing fine",
"i just wanted to make sure you are in good health, just concerned",
"i need a small help from you, to solve this technical problem",
"can you please help me to find out the Location of some place",
"do you know this person so and so, do you have his contact info",
"i wanted to invite you to a small party, can you please attend it", etc.
Similarly there are many more ways to start a communication.
Be Cautious. Before Speaking make sure that you are relaxed, you do not have any negative emotions Like Anger or Frustrations. Be Calm, Humble, Nice and Friendly. While starting a new conversation be sweet and gentle with your words. Most important, take care that you Avoid saying any Lies, which might Confuse the Person with any Suspicion. If you do Not know Something, better say that you are Not Sure and you would Clarify and Confirm the same Later after Verification.
Communication with Empathy (Humbleness)
All Relationships are built by Communication.
We all have desires to be Wealthy and Rich.
But we cannot do anything wrong to achieve wealth.
We must be Humble, Transparent, with a Noble Purpose,
To heal, empower, to create better society.
Transparent means being truth-full.
What ever is inside, same is outside.
You express the truth what ever is in your mind.
Never Hide and Lie.
Make effort in Real Life.
Have Courage to Achieve, what you believe.
Only then the things will happen in real Life.
Only Belief without action will not help.
Have strength to stand strong with the right ones.
Have wisdom to take the right decision.
The teacher can only teach when the student is ready to learn.
"seeing is not believing", because you cannot believe just by seeing.
And "believing is seeing", because you only believe,
when you are sure how exactly with proof.
Only then you believe with confidence, which you can see in reality.
Thus one needs proof of evidence to believe in something.
Belief is possible with a reasoning logic of proof.
While Establishing a relationship,
Find out your comfort level,
How best you can Respect the person,
What name you are going to give the relationship.
Will you be happy to respect them as Brother or Sister,
Elderly Mother or Father, A Friend or a Companion.
Remember that establishing Compassion is the Priority.
It is a must to create a relationship with a proper name.
Try Not to reject an relationship until it is smooth and humble.
Create a Relation which will help communicate without any irritation.
The aim is Communication with Compassion.
The ultimate goal is to establish communication with happiness.
Comfortable communication.
Steps In Relationships:
Few Aspects of Relationships:
Relationship: Portrait of a Friend
Song: Help Me at Troubles.
Relationship of Love.
Relationship & Partnership in Life.
Trying to Define Relationship.
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